I owe everyone an apology.
I have spent the last few days researching the possibilities of what we can/can't do and have drawn a blank. I can do exactly what I wanted to do, but the costs would be far higher than I expected. Also I couldn't think of a payment scheme that would work. The modus operandi I thought about would mean that everyone would benefit - even if they didn't subscribe to the service.
So, for us, it looks like a simple strategy from here on in -
a) be more vigilant via Google searches
b) get the DMCA letters out and follow up
c) report all stuff we find here (private or otherwise)
Oh and try to keep winning 6-5! On that note August is going to be -
a) the best month for
www.candyleglust.com since it launched
b) the best month for
www.amazingastrid.com since 2008
So all is not lost. I still firmly believe that time is best spent marketing the sites - but concede that we have to work harder to get the results.